Tuesday, May 17, 2011

How Long Do YOU Deal with Someone before you feel like you're WASTING your Time?

As I sit here, I think to myself.. How long does a person deal with someone before they feel like they are wasting their time.  A month, 3 months, 6 months???  What has to be transpiring to make a woman/man feel that it 's no longer going anywhere?



With talking with people I've come up with these TOP reasons:

  • Not mentally Connecting with a person.
  • A person who has a big EGO.
  • When someone doesn't attempt to really get to know someone.
  • When you and the person do not 'hang out' and make memories with each other by living out new experiences. (Sharing Interest) 
  • They appear to be interested in everything or everyone else but the person they are dealing with.
  • You find out that the other person is very immature and is not ready for your ideals of a future. 
I've found that TIME will always tell.. Sometimes you find out things about a person in one week, others may take up to 6 months or longer but always take your time an get to know a person and share your desires and be honest. 

Honesty is the one thing that prevents everyone from wasting their time because both people understand what they are getting into. Being lead on does nothing but cause drama, animosity and anger... So if there's one thing that you get from this ... it's to always KEEP it 100 or REAL!

And...Remember your efforts go as far as your interest!  ;-)

1 comment:

shani said...

I second that honestly comment. If you put your views out there, there isn't anything left to question. So if your partner disagrees, they can choose to deal with it or move on. At the very least...give them that. I've learned that lesson the hard way.