Real thought of the day!

After seeing this chick walk on the floor during the laker /nuggets game ...it made me realize how disgusted I am with women who keep chasing men because their a celebrity, or because of who they know, they're status or how much money they make. Ladies stop chasing MEN and start chasing the bible and read up on self respect! Stop being so desperate because you want a MAN in your life!! #youdeserverespect

Thought of the day!!

When a person cheats on you the only one who gets cheated on in the relationship is them because they cheated themselves out of real happiness with a quality person!

::Real Beauty is More than Skin Deep::

In this day in age, Is Beauty really skin deep when it comes to dating?

Based on the recent conversations that i've had with others and just sitting back an observing has true beauty become over-rated??  Are people nowadays so shallow that the only important thing to them is how long someone's hair is, the shade of their skin, how tall they are, I can go on and on but rather not waste my time on it.

It's very disappointing that relationships are no longer filled with substance, which in the end causes them to fail because of the shallow observations that were made in the beginning. Although initial attraction is important....Getting to know a person or maybe I should say actually wanting to learn a person inside and out shoud be priority NUMBER ONE, rather than how they will look standing next you.

• Beauty knows a Real smile.
• Beauty is in the Eyes.
• Beauty is in a hug and touch.
• Beauty knows actions.
• Beauty is a reflection of your past.
• Beauty knows tears.
• Beauty know fears.
• Beauty knows likes and dislikes.
• Beauty knows YOU.

So do you know TRUE Beauty?

~Realistic Thoughts~

Younger Men Dating Older Women (For Mature Audiences ONLY)

It's starting to become more apparent to me that Younger men are dating Older women!!  Why the sudden change??? I've asked around and the answers are somewhat surprising.

First off, men feel that the younger generation of women are lacking the class that the older ones possess. Most young women nowadays seem to really be into the material and physical attributes that a man has.  And, typically they have no problem in showing it!!! And, considering what I have seen first hand....I completely agree with some of the viewpoints of the men.  Young women feel that they have to dress slutty to get the attention of a man or come off so aggressive to where they tend to make themselves look more slutty than attractive.  I feel that young women nowadays do not realize that they do not have to demean themselves in order to be sexy.  The one thing that is the sexiest of all is something that God gave all of us.... which is a brain! The more mentally stimmulating and less slutty you appear the more attractive you can be to a man. 

Secondly, young men feel that women who are older, pretty much have their life in order and are mature, experienced and don't have time for the childish games that are played by young women. To them that's sexy in its own right... to be older, have a career, not play games, and still dress sexy without looking scandalous......AND, lets not forget ....Still looks GOOD for their age!!!

It seems that many couples in Hollywood are taking on this NEW trend... Mariah and Nick, Demi and Ashton, and Kourtney and Scott.....So are the reasons mentioned, why the new group of Cougars/Panthers are growing day by day???   Or, are we following Hollywood's new trend??  Or, is it simply true love ??

I'm getting the feeling that we will soon see this trend grow more and more as time goes by....

Til next time.... stay tuned as to why Older Women are dating the younger Men.  AND, not that im THAT old we do have our reasons!!


***You can also follow me on twitter @DRealistic1***